“It’s easy for you to hitchhike – you’re a guy! But for us girls…” – I heard this sentence many many times. So I decided to ask a girl hitchhiking solo from Croatia to French Polynesia, to share her story, and tell us is it that different and dangerous to travel like this when you are a girl, and alone.

Here are her 36 tips she learned over the course of past couple of years spent on the road.

What does it take to be a single woman hitchhiker – by Ana Bakran

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It takes a woman and a simple decision to travel alone. That pretty much sums it up.

The rest of the text is here to make you feel a bit more prepared for what’s coming if you’re planning your first solo trip and happen to read these lines. 

Here is the list of situations you can expect, written to the best of my ability at this given point of time while hitchhiking from Croatia to French Polynesia.

This is certainly my own experience and yours may or may not vary.

So, let’s begin.

1. You’ll be told it’s very dangerous for a woman.

That’s one of the most annoying lines and you’ll hear it over and over and over again. Don’t get spooked. Hitchhiking alone is NOT more dangerous for a woman than it is for a man if you adjust to the culture you’re in and pick your rides wisely. Staying in your comfort zone and only lurking at the world through a TV or a computer is more dangerous as it gives you that feeling of a false security while spooking you out about the real world…which only makes you stay right where you are, on your sofa in front of the TV consuming the messages that are directed at you. But that’s the whole other topic, so let’s get back to the present one.

This traditional view of a woman seen as being fragile and someone who needs the man’s assistance to go through life is still very present in many countries and it might be one of the reasons why people will try to help you rather than harm you. Thank them for their concerns, but follow your path.

Soon you’ll realise there are people like you and me, EVERYWHERE. There are no hordes of psycho killers just cruising the streets and looking to kill you. You are not in a movie.

I’m not saying that hitchhiking alone doesn’t come without any risk. I’m saying you shouldn’t give your fear a power. You might be weaker psychically, but not mentally. Be prepared and don’t let your fear in a way of your life. You will be all right.

2. You’ll be told it’s impossible.

The locals will approach you on the street while you’re trying to hitchhike and tell you that you won’t get a ride, because it’s impossible. Don’t get discouraged. You will hear that from the people who have never hitchhiked before. Your ride will come. Be prepared to hear the same (impossible) line from your driver and again, you will only hear that from a person who has never hitchhiked before. Make sure to ask why did he/she pick you up if it’s so impossible to hitchhike. ☺ 

3. You’ll be told it’s much easier to hitchhike for a woman than it is for a man.

The truth is no one has it easy. While men might need to wait for their ride to come a bit longer, once they get it there is (usually) no need for questioning, double-questioning and triple-questioning driver’s intentions. Women will (usually) get a ride without much waiting, but then starts a process of making the right decision whether this is a safe ride and letting it go if it’s not. I repeat, no one has it easy

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4. You’ll be told it’s very easy to hitchhike when you’re a pretty girl.

Being pretty has nothing to do with hitchhiking. Being (reasonably) clean, (reasonably) smiley and sane while hitchhiking will take you further. Playing an instrument or juggling by the road won’t harm either. Being pretty won’t help you much if you look grumpy or scared shitless while standing by the road. And pretty by whose standards? I hitchhiked through China looking like a pregnant woman after massacring a candy store and I’ve never hitchhiked so many sports cars in my life. Tall, small, skinny, fat or whatever you look like, just remember that your ride will come.

5. You’ll be told it’s very easy to hitchhike if you wear skimpy clothes.

It might be true and it might get you in trouble, but that’s not my area of expertise. I like to keep more covered while hitchhiking and that’s my personal choice. I rarely wait for the ride more than 15 minutes, so skimpy clothes are definitely not determining factor in hitchhiking.    

6. You’ll be told how brave you are.

In my case that can’t be any further from the truth. There were days and the countries where I didn’t feel 100% confident and I was actually shitting myself from the inside. Does putting a brave facade from the outside make you brave? I don’t think so, but I know I’m very determined and I love hitchhiking. Hitchhiking alone makes you mentally stronger, not braver, because there will always be a situation when you will shit yourself a little and it’ll make you stronger in the long run…and that’s a beauty of hitchhiking, too.

7. You’ll be told how confident and strong you are.

Damn right, because you are. Both, confidence and strength will skyrocket with the experience.

8. You’ll be asked why you are alone.

As if you were missing a body part, you will be asked why, why, WHY are you traveling alone, where is your friend, your boyfriend or a husband? As if you were completely incapable of breathing without anyone’s assistance. The truth is you will never be completely alone. There will be the locals that will approach you on the street, the drivers that will give you a lift, the travelers you will come across in a hostel, a bar, a street or via Couchsurfing or some random passengers/expats you’ll stumble upon when least expected. Traveling alone comes with a freedom to choose your way and change it in a split of a second just to have another change of a heart 2 minutes later only if you want it so and it’s mad brilliant! 

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9. You’ll be asked what does your family think of you traveling alone.

It’s no one’s business what do you do with your life, because that’s your life, but it’s a great mental relief if you enjoy the support of your family. I’m lucky enough to have a great and supportive family in everything I do, but that also didn’t come over night. It was built on years and years of trust. Yes, they are worried and many times they miss me and want me home, but they also trust my judgement and they are very proud that I’m strong and persistent enough to do what feels right for me. If I could give you one single piece of advice I would tell you to get off your ass and chase after your dreams even if you don’t enjoy the support of your friends and family. Their support will come by time and even if it doesn’t, it won’t matter much as you won’t regret living your life the way YOU wanted.

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10. People will try to feed you.

Whether is it because you are a single traveler on the road and you happen to be a woman so their traditional protective upbringing kicks in OR is it because of their natural motherly feelings… I don’t know. Sometimes they just want you to try the food you’ve never tried before and your reaction makes them happy. Sometimes they are so worried of you dying out of hunger that they will pack 3 bags of food even though you:

  • clearly said you were not hungry
  • explained how you have already gained 10kg during your journey
  • did both of the above, plus you showed them the stash of food in your bag for the road

They won’t care and will feed you no matter what you say. My honest advice to you is to always hitchhike on more than half empty stomach with few pieces of fruit stashed in your bag and a small bottle of water. Why only a small bottle? Read the lines above and change the word „food“ with „drink“.

First you might think such treatment of the single woman traveler only applies to Balkan region, then the same will happen in Turkey, Iran, Turkmenistan, Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos….20 plus countries and 10kg later you’ll figure out that some parts of the world kind of function like that and you will remember all the travelers/hitchhikers that you hosted or picked up before you went on your trip and surely you didn’t leave them hungry either. I guess that’s a humane thing to do and it makes me really proud to live in such world. 

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11. People will offer you money and ask for nothing in return.

I’m not joking. People will offer you money because of a common misperception of a broke hitchhiker and they will try to help you. The truth is that not all of the hitchhikers are broke. Personally, the money (or a lack of it) is not a reason why I hitchhike and I don’t accept any money that’s being offered to me. Please keep a great hitchhiking legacy and don’t accept any money if you’re not in a serious need. Taking advantage of generous people is not what hitchhiking (and humanity) is about. 

12. You’ll be asked about your money/religion/virginity/married situation.

In some cultures it’s perfectly acceptable to ask the questions that would be considered more private in other cultures…and sometimes you’ll simply stumble upon some very curious people. 😀 Just because they ask, it doesn’t mean you have to answer and if you do, remember that the humor is probably the best way out of a delicate situation. Be aware that religion is a big deal in some countries and claiming that you don’t have a religion can get you in trouble where being irreligious is still illegal.     

13. People will try to set you up with a boyfriend, marry you (especially in the countries where a man can have more wives) or offer you a very direct „business-marriage“ proposal.

Especially if you are holder of EU passport that happen to travel in some of politically and economically more unfortunate countries. A simple ring around your finger and a convincing story about your husband that is waiting for you in XY city should get you out of (all of the above) trouble.

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14. People will offer you jobs.

It happens quite often and it’s a nice feeling that someone likes you enough to want to keep you in their country a bit longer. Most of the jobs I’ve been offered (out of the blue) were the teaching jobs.

15. People will show you their penises.

Whether you are just walking on the street, hitchhiking or actually sitting in a car with a driver, you will get flashed in some countries, just like that. I’m not sure if that happens due to enormous amount of porn and a very stupid hitchhiking stereotype, but what I’m sure of is that you can get out of the situation with no consequences if you keep calm and explain loud and clear they misjudged you and the situation. Important thing is not to freak out as you might freak them out and then they might do something stupid out of the panic.

By the look on their face you’ll notice they don’t really know what the hell they are doing. It’s the look that’s saying „I’ve seen this ones on YouPorn and I wonder if it works…I’ll let my penis out for few minutes and see what happens.“. Tough news amigo, nothing will happen. So far I came across such situations in Muslim countries only – with Malaysia ranking as No. 1.

I actually hitchhiked a guy who has never picked up a hitchhiker before and the line „Once I’ve seen this on YouPorn“ was his answer to my question if he knows what the hitchhiking means.

16. People will try to touch you.

Your hair, your hand or your leg just to test the situation. Make sure to stay calm and point to your fake wedding ring on the finger with a very clear and loud disapproving statement. That will be pretty self-explanatory in many countries even if your driver doesn’t speak any English. If that happens in a very religious country, make sure to bring some God(s) to the whole scenario by pointing to your wedding ring as well as saying God’s name and pointing to the sky – as if saying HIS God wouldn’t be very impressed with his behavior.

Make sure not to bring up Buddha’s name in Muslim country as it obviously won’t work. If the touching continues, get out of the car. 

17. People won’t let you out of their cars.

It happens very rarely, but it happens. Even though it’s a freaky situation, make sure to stay calm. If your driver speaks English, communicate clearly that there is a husband/brother/father waiting for you and he will go bananas if you don’t arrive safe and on time. It helps a lot if you show your driver a snap of his backside driver’s plates on your phone (that you have taken right before jumping in the car) and lie (if you have to) that you messaged the photo to your husband/brother/father that is waiting for you. He will pull over.

If your driver doesn’t speak any English, or if the tactic from above doesn’t work, show him your pepper-spray in one hand and count down 5 seconds with your other hand in front of his face, so it’s clear you will pepper spray him if he doesn’t start pulling over. Don’t hesitate to spray him if he shows no reaction to your countdown. He will stop the car, because he’ll be unable to breath. (The same as you, so be prepared.)

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18. People will try to trick you. There are so many traveler scams in different countries that I could write another article to sum it all up. My best advice is to keep your heart and eyes open for the people, but if something feels dodgy – that’s because it probably is. Do a little research before going to a new country and trust your inner self when something doesn’t feel right.

19. You’ll be asked if you’ve ever hitchhiked a paid transportation.

The longer you hitchhike the chances are you’ve probably done it all – taxies, buses, tuk-tuks, ferries…you name it. My personal rule for hitchhiking paid transportation is to get off the ride in case it’s getting crowded and I’m about to take someone’s place. Always have in mind that your drivers feed their families with their driving job. Be mindful and kind. Surely you’ll find another ride with all that positive energy in you!

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20. People will invite you to their houses, dinners, birthdays, weddings, funerals, parties…

One of the most beautiful facts about hitchhiking is that you’ll be around locals all the time and get a great feeling of their culture, how they live, what they think…etc. Of course, you can pay and see all of that through the touristic arrangements, but you will lack that sincere feeling that you’ve been invited from their heart and not because of your wallet. These are the people you will most likely become friends and stay in touch with. 

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21. People will laugh at you and your plans.

Don’t get discouraged. Laugh with them and carry on.

22. People will give you some great, helpful tips and their knowledge.

Anything you can think of – from the history of their country to the latest happenings, the best ice cream in their city, the cheapest accommodation…and sometimes they will just share a laugh with you and that’s beautiful too.

23. You’ll be given gifts.

One downside of solo or any kind of hitchhiking is that people you meet will often give you small gifts as a memory or a lucky charm for your travels, but you’re very limited with space. It’s a very memorable and nice gesture, but there is only so much you can carry in your small backpack. Most of the things I receive, I give away. A memory of a great people you meet is life-lasting and enough.   

24. People will send you in the wrong direction.

Sometimes by accident and other times because answering „I don’t know“ to your question is simply not part of their culture. Multiple-checking and having a smiling heart in tough situations usually eases the stress. In my case, swearing in Croatian does the trick.

25. People will talk to you even when you clearly don’t speak their language.

They will and I think that’s such a beautiful thing! They will speak in their own language, they will use the translation app on their smartphone, they will try the sign language, they will draw on paper, call a friend who speaks English…I even hitchhiked one Chinese guy who thought I might understand him if he whispers to me in a very gesticulate way. He kept on doing that even though I was pissing myself laughing as whispering in Mandarin was not much of a help.

26. People will take you to the bus/train/taxi station even though you told them you’re HITCHHIKING ONLY.

There are countries where hitchhiking is not common and people don’t quite understand the idea of hitchhiking. Your „knowledge“ of their language won’t help much either. You will get dropped off at the bus/train/taxi station only to be picked up again and taken to another bus/train/taxi station. After you get tired of riding in circles, you will find a person who speaks English and tell him/her to write you a letter in a local language explaining what exactly you are trying to accomplish. You’ll show this letter to your next driver and that will be the end of your riding in circles. Hopefully.

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27. People will try to hitchhike for you.

Whether they are Chinese cops, Burmese kids or half a village in Kurdistan, people will try to help you by hitchhiking FOR you. It’s kind of help you really don’t want, because there is nothing worse than 10 people standing around you with their thumbs up. Drivers won’t stop to pick you up because they will:

  • get spooked by bunch of people by the road with their thumbs up
  • think you are safe and sorted because there are locals that are already „helping you“

If you find yourself in that situation, try to explain you have much better chances while hitchhiking alone and if it doesn’t work, simply walk away from the people. (Yes, they will follow you, and yes, they will give up if you walk far enough.) 😀

28. People will try to hitchhike with you.

They will pick you up, fall in love with your story, leave their car and join one part of your travels. It happens and it’s beautiful.

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29. You’ll be asked “What’s that thing around your neck?”

It’s a “rape whistle” which is nothing else than a (very loud) whistle that might come in handy in case you get attacked on the street, accidentally lock yourself in a bathroom or against wild monkeys if you hike alone through the forest. Monkeys can be real bitches sometimes.

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30. You’ll be asked if you carry any weapons and if you know kung fu.

Personally, I don’t carry any weapons with me, but I also never reveal all of my secret „weapons“. Make them wonder.

31. People will ask you money for a ride in certain countries.

Just because they ask for it, it doesn’t mean you have to give it to them. Make sure they understand that you are hitchhiking BEFORE you get in the car. If they request the money, thank them for stopping and let them go. Your ride will come.

32. You’ll be asked where you are sleeping tonight.

If you are a bit like me and not a fussy sleeper, there is a good chance you’ll have nothing sorted for the night, because you know that the possibilities are endless. From the hostels, guesthouses, Couchsurfing hosts, terraces, parks, mosques, temples, gas stations, cars and trucks of your drivers to the houses of the local people who invite you in. It doesn’t really matter where you sleep as long as YOU feel safe.    

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33. You’ll be asked if you ever get lonely.

I think that greatly depends on what kind of character you are. If you are a bit of an extrovert, you might get lonely after travelling alone for a while. If you are more of an introvert like me, the chances are you’ll love your free space. I find it very hard to get lonely with so many people around me all the time. From the drivers that pick me up, the travelers on the street, in the hostels, in the bars, always curious locals, Couchsurfing community, random expats…the list goes on and on. Even in the crappiest places, you will always find yourself a company if you want one.

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34. You’ll be asked if you’ve ever rejected the ride.

Sometimes you will get a bad feeling about people who stop to pick you up. There will be something about the way they talk, act or stare at you. Something about it just won’t feel right. Don’t be scared to turn down the ride. Do it politely, but without much (or any at all) explanation. Another trick to get rid of (unwanted) drivers is to tell them you’re going to the city that’s in the opposite direction. They will tell you that you made a mistake, that you should stand on the other side of the road and they will drive off. ☺   

35. You’ll be asked whether you are scared of the police.

There are some more closed down countries, like Turkmenistan and Burma where I wasn’t sure what the police reaction was going to be on my hitchhiking through their territory. In general, the police should protect people, so if you’re not doing anything bad-ass they will probably check your passport and leave you alone.

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In China, they’ll pick you up and take you to a better hitchhiking spot and in Iran they’ll get so worried about your safety, they’ll take you to the police station and 5 (wasted) hours later they’ll find a translator who will tell you “Don’t worry Miss, you are safe now”.

There are few countries in which it is illegal to hitchhike on the highway and the police will come to warn you about it (or give you a ticket), just remember that a smile and a polite & positive attitude goes a long way. Police should be the least of your worries.

36. People will ask isn’t it very dangerous for a woman to hitchhike alone through (more strict) Muslim countries.

From my own experience, you should definitely be more careful, but it’s not impossible. Keep in mind that your presence and attitude is also influencing their culture and changing their opinion about women. Make your presence a worthwhile. Very old women’s trick for hitchhiking through strict Muslim countries is to always wear a period pad even if you are not menstruating. If you’ve been attacked and you’re about to get raped, this pad might be your life and health saver as most Muslims restrain from the intercourse during women’s period. 

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That’s all I can think of right now. If you have some more questions, feel free to message me HERE – I’ll be happy to help any way I can.

You’ve already seen ALL of Facebook inspirational, traveling memes and quotes, seen ALL of National Geographic documentaries, read ALL of the traveling books and blogs, secretly and publicly stalked other travelers on Facebook and Instagram. It’s time you stop living through other people’s experiences and make a few on your own. Timing will never be right, so you might as well start now. If you really want to do it, you will always find some way. Spare yourself another excuse and – go girl! 

Ana Bakran

  • Tata

    So true! Very well written, feelings expressed ! Keep going girl !

  • Peter Mell

    Pa Ana jeli bilo puno udvaraca na putu, ili mozda cak bracnih ponuda?

  • jiling lin

    thanks for sharing this! I’ve been meaning to write a similar article. I really enjoyed this! <3

  • Great tips and pointers that leave me with nothing to ask. I admire your honesty. We should all follow our dreams. I have never hitched, but I have picked up hitchhikers.

  • Jamie MacDonald

    a being after my own hart, peace be the trip 🙂

  • edris

    haha it was wonderful

  • Vita Štrobindere

    I am woman and I really would like to do this too , the thing is, I don`t want to leave my dog. And here is maybe little bit crazy question- has anyone tried to hitchhik with dog?

    • tomislavperko

      I know couple of people that hitched with a dog – successfully 🙂

      Actually, a dog can be your guard! 🙂

    • Arielle T

      I think you would only have a problem with a dog if it was unusually large, or if you were going through Muslim countries as dogs are haram for most Muslims :o)

    • Parviz Ghasemi

      i’m from Iran.
      if you like to travel to my country, i can be your host.
      my email:ghasemi.itc[at]gmail.com

  • Tremendous article! When I read things like this, it makes me think I need to break out of my comfort zone way more often.

  • Martin

    awesome article, take it easy, keep going!

  • Arcueilcachan

    Really nice article! It made me want to dro everything and go on a road again. Although due to all cultural and religion differences I believe there should be a detailed guide about female hitchhiking created for every country 🙂 I would totally add some points regarding hitchhiking on iberian penisula, where young people don’t know this idea at all. Good luck and only good adventures to all the female hitchhikers!

    Some of my hitchhiking memories can be found here: (although one with a male friend, so that’s cheating a bit :P)

  • Arielle T

    I think this is a brilliant article, but as a fellow solo female traveller and hitch-hiker I think it’s important not to dismiss the fact that it IS more dangerous for a woman or put it down to simple imagination i.e. “This is not a movie”.

    Of course we shouldn’t let fear discourage us from travelling altogether because we should be able to do as we damn well please – but the simple fact that you have to include pepper spray, rape whistle and sanitary pad plus tips on how to discourage unwanted physical contact in your list speaks volumes. Have fun, and safe travels to you lady friend 🙂

  • eternal404

    Awesome Article Ana, you made me want to travel again 🙂

  • Bertramp

    Hello. Very good article.
    I have a travelling blog in french and I wish to translate your article for french that doesn’t speak english. Don’t worry, I will post a link to the original article and I will say “If you speak english, read the original one.”. Do you have any objection with me translating your article ?

    • tomislavperko

      Hi, Ana is currently sailing somewhere, she will get back to you soon 🙂

      • Bertramp

        Sorry, I’ve been travelling and didn’t check the answer, my bad.
        Okay, 2 things : first … OMAGAD, Tomislav Perko answered me O_O !!! Hyaaa !!! No, I just saw your TED conference and loved it, one of the best about travelling.
        Second, I didn’t expect you asking my blog. Okay this is a very modest blog, kinda new, there is not so much content yet. I am not so much of a blog person, I just started because I think I have stuff to say. It is in french and it aim to push people on the road, by giving glimpse of the life on the road throught stories that happened to me and what I learned from them. Also giving tips, good website for people to travel with very little money. And a lot of others stuff =D like translating the best english article for french non english speakers, and portraying travelers throught interview to show what kind of people you can met and what kind of people you can become throught travelling. I haven’t done the translation yet. But here you go http://bertramp.over-blog.com/

        • tomislavperko

          Hi there,

          Ana just wrote to me and she said it is okay for you to translate her article and put it on your website – just link on this one and send it to us 🙂

          • Bertramp

            Perfect. I’m going to do some grapepicking and will be off the net, so expect the article in 2 or 3 weeks =)

    • tomislavperko

      Hi, Ana is asking can you give us the link to your web?

    • Conny Vugranicek

      Hi, of you like i could translate for you in german, i come from croatia and live in austria so it would be Bo Problem! !i would like to, for free! You can send me a Mail or Facebook message, by conny

  • Avery

    I want to travel around the world like this some day too and I keep trying to convince my mom that women can hitchhike solo. But she, who is not even a safety nut, is saying that “only creeps pick up girls”. I don’t know who to believe, my mother or someone who’s actually done it…

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  • Aisyah Jaafar

    I love reading your article! And to be true, you are a heroic person. I have a big dream of travelling (hitchhiking) to somewhere around Netherlands, Amsterdam and I’m from Malaysia. It kinds of impossible to do but my late father was once a hitchhiker but never made it there – his dream country to visit. And As a Malaysian citizen I am sorry fr what you had been through with the unrational mens that did inappropriately to you. So, your article is such an inspiration to myself. Thanks ana!

  • Zivile Necejauskaite

    Hey Tomislav! Together with my friend (he is a guy) we are hitchhiking around the world as well but I always wondered how would it feel to be on my own 🙂 Thanks for sharing

    • Avery

      Hello as you might know from my comment below, I want to hitchhike and couchsurf, but adults are telling me it’s dangerous. I wonder if it would be okay if I went with a boyfriend or husband. How is the hitchhiking situation for you and have you tried couchsurfing? I’ve never left the country so I don’t know what to expect.

      • tomislavperko

        Adults will tell you it is dangerous because they want you to be safe. If you do want to hitchhike and couchsurf, be aware of all the possible issues, educate yourself, prepare yourself, and be safe. And I think its a good idea to start with someone else first…

        • Avery

          I agree. I am learning as much as I can about it. Also I’ve brought up wanting to be an exchange student and my parents like the idea.

  • Alyssa

    Hello! I’m Alyssa from Florida, I’m 18 years old and planning to hitchhike around the world. but I’m worried about going through places like Syria, Iraq, and Iran. any advice?

    • tomislavperko

      Yes – there are alternative routes, and maybe it really isnt the best idea to go to those areas at the moment.

    • Behzad Eghtesad

      Alyssa, I’m Iranian, live in Bay Area Ca, have been visited 30 countries in north america, Asia and Europe. can say 100% Iranian are most hospitalized people in this countries that i have been, Iran also is safe like other’s countries. please note any countries have different places and people, ,even Switzerland, can be not safe if some places depend people your talking. i’m couch surfer and more than 70 guys, girls, they game to my home in last 15 years, and always they said Iran is most safest country that they traveled.. please look at this report of people in my site: http://www.run.ir , walk hard!

  • Lyra

    Hello)) I must express my admiration of you! You`re really courageous person.
    But there are my questions:
    1.Can you tell what countries in which you`ve been are the safest?
    2.And what things should be taken and which not for long-term and safe travel for woman?
    3. What seasons (months) are the best to start the travel from Europe to Asia and then from Indonesia to New Zealand? I have in mind to avoid the discomfort concerning weather and climate in different countries?
    Your articles are very helpful to me!

  • 10go

    You will never know me, I will never know you but thank you. just… thank you

  • Elif Merve Yalçın

    Hi, I’m Elif and I’m a Muslim girl from Turkey. Just wanted to say, I loved reading your article. But when i saw the parts about Muslim countries, my eyes got filled with tears. It’s very sad that only the people who live in Islamic countries are acting like that, so ignorant and filthy. I want you and everyone to know, that’s not what Islam teaches and not all Muslims are like that. I think there is a lot of aspects that it’s happening in the Muslim countries. You should come to Turkey, but the middle and west side is better, (again) sadly i can’t reccomend the east side. Anyway, i think you already know these things kind of since you’re clearly learning a lot trough out your life. I hope you see, learn and teach more and more amazing things in the world 🙂

  • nic

    Greetings from Malaysia. I’m only 15 but I plan to travel the world after I graduate and this really helped

  • Anni

    Hi, I’m Annie from Vancouver, Canada. I’m currently 15, but will be finishing high school within a year. I really would like to travel “non-conventionally” as soon as I’m 18, but I would love to do it within North America. I know, it’s not exactly an exotic plan, but I want to travel more for the experience of meeting strangers and becoming independent. Your articles here focus on traveling in Asia, the Middle East, South America, and Africa, but would you know anything about travelling in North America and how that would be different?

    • Philosophical Bum

      Hi Anni,

      I’ve backpacked through the 50 states for 15 months (as an American-born) mostly solo and though my international experience is limited I would love to give you some insight into traveling across the United States’ portion of North America. No matter where you travel to in the world it will be a great adventure; you will develop a deeper relationship with life and experience kindness so overwhelming you will want to cry.

      There are definitely varying shades of nuance depending on where you travel. For example in America hitchhiking is viewed with mistrust, skepticism and disdain (in many places, but not everywhere) while in Cuba it is relatively accepted and there are even designated hitching stops where government vehicles must stop for hitchers. Even within one country you will see a lot of diversity in norms. For example when I hitched in Oklahoma in the U.S. I was met with many befuddled stares like I was some strange animal at the zoo. But when I hitched in Hawaii and rural Idaho my hitching was treated as perfectly normal and I got many rides from locals.

      Long distance public transportation in many parts of the world (like in parts of Europe and Japan) is a bigger part of daily life compared to the US. And when many people think of traveling long-distance in the US they mainly think of commercial airline, driving a personal car or greyhound bus. However, there are actually many many ways to get around America. Greyhound buses, megabus, local buses (sometimes called china town buses), the amtrak national train, regional trains, train hopping (dangerous and illegal in the US, would not recommend it, but some do it anyways :p), craiglist rideshare, improv ride share (aka: meeting a random cool person and they end up spontaneously offering you a ride), discount airlines (ex: southwest airlines has great rates and people often don’t know because it isn’t featured on airfare search sights like hipmunk or Expedia), riding in small planes (getting to different islands in Hawaii is fairly common in tiny 9 person planes, heck even on craiglist people offer plane rideshares in different areas of the US, lol), taking the ferry (limited in the US but still exists, there is a ferry from Washington state to Alaska in the warmer months), working on a boat across the ocean (people are always looking for both male and female deck hands), hitchhiking, long distance bicycle riding, hiking long trails across america, walking across the country (surprisingly common), you can get paid to drive someone’s car across the country for them, etc. etc.

      I’ve done a good number of the transportation options listed above and it greatly added to my journeys by trying novel ways of getting around. But if you’re about to try something new (especially something like hitchhiking, train hopping, walking long distance, etc), I would do a good amount of research before hand, which you already seem like you’re doing. Good on ya, Anni.

      I hope I helped in some way! I think it’s way awesome you’re already thinking about unconventional travel at 15. Have a healthy and happy journey.

      • Anni

        Thank you so much for your insightful reply! You’ve definitely helped me with many of my confusions. Your story seems amazing – traveling 50 states in 15 months! I would really love to know more about your experience, not just on transit but your personal observations of your trip. If you don’t mind me asking, do you have a blog or social media site?

  • Luvy Dub

    Hello, I’m a truck driver in the U.S. I’ve only picked up a woman hitchhiking in California once. I didn’t get sex or anything even though I wanted some. I asked she declined and I respected that. I gave her a ride from Bakersfield down to L.A. She did flash me her boobs at the end. I go cross country and I will only offer rides to women who I find reasonably attractive. Yes she must be clean and yes I want her to be a non-smoker non-drug user and not crazy. If a woman doesn’t want to give me sex, love and affection I will only take her so far because I gotta make room for a chick who. Now a chick who is willing to give me her body and all I ask for will get cross rides, shower everyday, food and occasional hotel and a lil cash gift she won’t have to spend. Plus I’m a 6ft handsome guy who showers and shaves everyday, clean no stds. So I’m not a bad guy to have sex with. I say all that to ask if any hitchhiking woman finds offering sex to be useful while hitchhiking across America. Also for the author do you discourage women from using sex while hitchhiking? I’m a lonely trucker and if a woman I like offers me some action I can’t decline.

    • Mustafa Djellouli

      You are a sick bastard

    • Häagen Daz

      If you really weren’t a bad guy to have sex with, you wouldn’t resort to taking advantage of female hitchhikers in order to obtain sexual favors. You would go out and socialize with women like normal men do.

  • Alexandre Dube

    Hi, it’s a nice article. The only thing I would like to add is that you might not like when people generalize that it’s not safe to travel as a women alone but it doesn’t mean that because you did it and didn’t had a bad experience that you can generalize that everyone will have the same experience. I have someone close to me that was drugged and rapped traveling that way. Yes everything is dangerous on it’s own way, you have people saying that driving 200km/h+ is dangerous but I do it every month at the track for hours and my car doesn’t have a scratch … does it mean it’s totally safe ? no it’s all about risk control. There’s nothing wrong for a women to decide to travel with someone(Girl or guy) just to be on the safe side.

  • I’ve always thought that woman hitchhiking is definitely dangerous, but after reading your post I can claim that it might be even funny! I was reading this with a smile on my face but anyway, you need to be careful while hitchhiking either you are man or woman.

  • Behzad Eghtesad

    Dear Ana, nice to hear this lovely trip you had, I’m Iranian and many hosted 10s of couch surfers, almost all of them they were more appreciated from Iranian police or people, although i believe negatives can happen too anywhere around the globe, but i think one time 4-5 hrs wasting time is not as much as negative! walk hard!

  • Tam

    I love this post soooo much! As a longtime hitchhiker (10 years and many countries later), I can’t tell you how sick I am of some of the above assumptions. Especially that it’s unsafe. That I will obviously get murdered. That my family doesn’t support me. That I should use my body to get a ride. It’s infuriating. Hitchhiking has taught me so much about the power of strangers and it’s my favorite place to get around (if in the right place and I have the time).

    I never had someone show their penis to me though! Wow 🙁

    Thank you for your tips and I hope you don’t mind that I used your story on my own post about hitchhiking!

    Tam @ http://freshcoffeestains.com/female-hitchhiking/

  • Häagen Daz

    *says hitchhiking is not more dangerous for women*
    *mentions men flashing their dicks at her*
    *recommends carrying a rape whistle and wearing a menstrual pad to deter rapists*

    Um… do you realize that you contradicted yourself like multiple times throughout this article? Or are you also advising that men carry rape whistles and wear a maxi pad for their own safety? You’re so hellbent on convincing readers that hitchhiking is perfectly safe for a woman to do that you even forget all your examples of negative experiences belie that claim.

    • thaddeusbuttmunchmd

      Cynthia Rothrock (in her Prime) could handle it. Maybe Rhonda Roussey, Too.

  • Ayame Kagune

    I’ve been thinking for a while to maybe try giving hitchhiking a chance. I’ve always wanted to travel and see the world but money is always the biggest issue as well as rather bad sense of direction so I’m not fully sure if it’s really the best thing.